Businesswomen, please stop acting like your business is not about making money.
"This is not about the money, though"
"money is not the most important factor right now"
"We can sort out the money...later"
"try to make it as affordable as possible"
"yes, I can always do that for FREE"
"let that payment slide, it is okay"
"forget about paying"
What are you really saying and doing??
- money, pricing, revenue feels challenging to think about
- I make it seem virtuous to not value or receive money
- money is not important to make or to have
- it is okay to not be paid
- prevents people that want to pay and feel good about making that purchase/s from vibing with you
- internal blocks that repels people from investing in your events, your products, your sessions and you
- my husband/partner/parents/family will provide money for me
- blocks the natural creative revenue streams that flow from events
- halts your mind from looking for opportunities to make money
As women, I find that we often look at other offers to price match, try to make things "affordable" and selling out our services is the norm.
By the way, I come to these thought trains through an ongoing investigation into wealth health, the frequency of money, speech patterns, energy flow / blocks and actions that are enhancing bullsh*t money stories and perpetuating an unhealthy relationship with money.
If you are running events, speaking, facilitating a workshop or WORKING YOUR ASS OFF it is to get paid for your services and energy investment and/or to showcase your valuable services to bring in paying clients!!
I know it's not popular to say it like it is.
We can fluff it up with 'making connections', 'learning the ropes', 'building our networks', 'forming relationships'...but it all leads to exchange of some form.
As I learn more about all the scary unknowns in financial affairs I keep coming to the same conclusion.
- Stop selling out!!
- Add high value in your services and charge accordingly!!
- money scarcity keeps us stuck
- not understanding the natural way we play, save, invest, and take risks with money makes it feel "wrong"
- Get soulful, move with your heart and find clients that resonate with your message.
- When you know your purpose, move in inspired flow, ALLOW money to pull into you and embrace it!!
You want to shake up the patriarchy? Make more money!!
Making money is f^c*ing sexy
Making money is powerful
Making money makes me feel good
Making money enables me to serve more and more people
Making money can be given to great causes
Making money can impact communities and the world
Making money provides opportunities
Making money supports my family
Making money enhances my life force energy
Making money propels me forward in life
Making money allows my abundant soul to thrive
Making money will help my nervous system to regulate
Your business is about making money...and you can be proud of that.
Do you know what happens when you start to value money??
- Avenues to increase your richness start to land in your lap
- You stop playing small to "keep those regulars"
- You start to make ROOM for larger chunks to arrive in your bank accounts
- You clear out funky energy limiting that inner wealth generation
- You heal generational trauma, feminine wounds
- Your circle of clients change and new people arrive on your doorstep
So here I am on a mission to make it incredibly easy to LOVE money especially, the money I make through the loving service I provide for others.
Let me know your thoughts ladies? Send me a PM if shy
P.s
I started painting this many moons ago and yesterday, in a tizz I bought it out as I was thinking about women and money